Sunday, June 30, 2013

Letter #7


Dear Rowan,                                                September 1     St. Louis

After my first day on the road, life is looking up again! What a wonderful feeling to be free of that job and that apartment and to know that I never ever have to go back to either one. The job offered me a leave of absence, apparently they know that their employees feel more like cattle in a slaughter yard than people, and need to walk away from the job for weeks or months at a time or they will snap or crumble. Apparently, while they do nothing to actively make their employees lives better, either a verbal explosion or a weeping pile of depression that used to be a person occurring in the middle of the call floor is not something they want other employees to witness more than once a week (maybe they think we will spook and stampede for the doors). Thus they offer time away from hell to see what the real world is like and regain a sense of self respect before plunging back into the cave of cubicles that reek of human despair. As I told you before, I just quit. I do not want the gloom of impending re-damnation hanging over me, even if they were to give me leave of absence for a whole year.
Today I packed up all my stuff into the back of my car, turned in the keys for my little dungeon, and took to the open road. My destination, at least for a week or two, is St. Louis, MO. The drive took all day, but I was in no hurry, other than to gain some distance between myself and Wichita. I headed north first, up through Kansas City, then east over to St. Louis. I stopped in Kansas City for lunch and a little sightseeing. The country around Kansas City is just as flat as Wichita, but the city itself seems more alive and modern. I didn't stay very long, as I was looking for a place that didn't remind me of Wichita, even if it was more appealing. I had lunch at a place I found online called Fiorella's Jack Stack BBQ that has a really good Zagat rating and decent prices. I was a little dubious since it sounds like it should be an italian/BBQ fusion, but it was actually really good. And yes, I did have ribs. At a BBQ joint in the heart of America, would you expect anything less of me? After lunch it was straight back onto the interstate headed for St. Louis. I may go back to Kansas City someday when I don't hold resentment to it simply for being within driving distance of Wichita.
St. Louis is a terrifying place to drive into. The outskirts of the city are dotted with empty, abandoned, decrepit buildings. It feels like a plague has come through and left buildings with no one alive to care for them. Or maybe the zombie apocalypse has already started and no one knows, because it started in St. Louis and it is eating all the people from the outskirts into the central city and no one escaped to warn the rest of the world yet. Even in the heart of downtown St. Louis, within walking distance of the iconic (and amazingly, disturbingly, mind bogglingly gigantic) arch, there are abandoned, crumbling buildings wedged between fully functional, apparently thriving businesses. I expected to see contamination signs across the doors to warn people away and explain these rotten teeth in the skyline of the city. But there seems to be no explanation except neglect and ennui. The problem with these now uninhabitable buildings is that their owners gave up on them and moved away, but no one bought them so now no one wants the bother of either tearing them down or fixing them up, so they sit hollow, with boarded up windows or gaping holes in the upper stories where windows used to be. It feels like the city is dying just because no one cares, and they will just sit and watch it rot until they think it is hurting their own profits, then they will just move away and leave another rotten tooth to crumble into decay and drag the city further down. Its sad, really. I found an amazing little Indian restaurant with the greatest dessert naan I have ever had. It was naan stuffed with raisins and coconuts, and pistachios, and dusted with cinnamon and sugar, and they served honey with it to drizzle onto it for a little added sweetness. There was also an apparently thriving arts district, because the streets were crowded with people either coming from or going to  shows, and some people that had apparently just come out of one show and were going to another, from what I gathered from shamelessly eavesdropping while loitering around the crowds on the sidewalk. How else was I supposed to find out what there was to do in town? I did not go to a show tonight though. After my escape from Wichita and a full day on the road, I was just ready to find a bed and not wake up for a day or two.
I discovered that the US has hostels today. Somehow I had always thought of hostels as a European thing. But there are quite a few hostels in St. Louis, and you can even get a private room. Normally dorming would be fine with me, but after the day I have had, I wanted a little alone-but-not-driving time. Besides, it was late when I finally found the hostel, and I did not think that dorm mates would appreciate me staying up to write a letter, or creeping in in the middle of the night after having stayed up in the main room writing. So private room it is, for tonight at least. The "hostel" I found with private rooms is actually a Motel 6, but its rooms go for $21 a night, so I might look into a real hostel tomorrow. I know there is a youth hostel somewhere in St. Louis, but it was late and I did not want to hunt around and try to find it tonight, I just wanted a bed.
Speaking of beds, the old bat of a landlord in Wichita bought the mattress from me that I got when I moved in, and she bought it for the same price that I bought it for, seeing as it was nearly brand new. I also did not tell her what I bought it for, and gave her an inflated price which she then haggled down, but the price we settled on was just about the price I got it for, rounding up to a flat dollar amount of course. And she paid me in cash, so I don't have to worry about a check bouncing or anything.
I think I will stay in St. Louis for a few days, maybe a week, then head north again to Chicago. I want to make it over to Salem, Mass. for Halloween. From what I have been able to find online, it looks like they do a rather amazing city wide blowout, and if that doesn't get me a candy fix for a few weeks (or maybe months) I don't know what will.
If you know about, or have opinions about, any of the cities between Chicago and Salem, let me know. I am going to be driving along I-90 (as far as I can tell from the maps), so I will be up for exploring any place between Chicago and Boston. There are no hostels in Salem, I already looked, so I think I will find a place to stay in Boston and then drive up to Salem for Halloween.
Once I finally get up tomorrow, I plan on beginning to explore St. Louis. I have to go up in the arch of course, and the travel book says there is an underground museum beneath it that I will go down and see. I also read that they have a dome with a year round rainforest inside, so I really want to go see that. I wonder if they have animals in their rain forest or just plants. The guide does not really specify, but I think it is just plants. It is inside the botanical garden, which I guess used to belong to a hardware baron, and he willed it to the city when he died. I will also need to go spend at least a day at the St. Louis zoo, as I do love big well-funded zoos. Little zoos always make me sad, but big ones with nice enclosures for the animals are calming to me. Plus I need to take several walking trips around the city to see any fun buildings or stores. And I will need to drive out to any places that come to my attention as interesting but are out of walking range.
Do you have any suggestions for must-do or must-see places or things in St. Louis? It would be so fun if you could come out and go on this Grand Tour of mine with me, but at least I will get to see you for New Year's when I come to New York. Are you still at the same job, or did someone finally notice your rather amazing talent and hire you away from the coffee shop? Or there is always the possibility of a wonderfully handsome and wealthy young man coming into your Park Avenue coffee shop, falling madly in love with you at fist sight, and sweeping you off to his penthouse. But the finding-a-better-job idea seems more likely, even in New York. And that way I would not have to be wildly jealous of you, either. If you did end up in your own happily-ever-after New York fairytale it would certainly inspire at least a short period of jealousy. But in all seriousness, I hop life is treating you well in whatever you are doing, and I look forward to hearing from you soon. You don't have to tell me that I have gone insane though, that is already a well established point by now.

Your Friend,

Emily

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